By Brigette Danielle: 2021

Hey y'all!
Do you want to improve your relationship with your teen? Then keep reading to see 5 ways you can improve your relationship with your teen.
Do you remember what it was like to be a teen? Do you remember that awkward phase of your life where you can't quite figure out which way is up but you think you know the way lol. Being a teenager is already tough enough- adding a tough relationship with their parents can make it even harder. But how do you keep it from going sideways? How can you improv your relationship with your teen?
After having two teens for a while now I picked up a few things along the way. Sure we have rough moments but after a lot.. and I mean A LOT of practice, patience and conversations I have found the best ways to improve your relationship with your teen.
Once again, I am NO EXPERT. However, I have almost 16 years of parenting experience so I am bound to learn something lol.
So, how do you improve your relationship with your teen?

1. Pray- Prayer can literally change your life. There have been many of trials in my life and whenever I prayed through it- God was there. Pray for your relationship with your child. Ask God to help you be the best parent you can be and to allow your child to draw close to you. Prayer works alongside actions.
2. Listening- Your teenager has a voice and while it may be right or wrong it is important. Giving your teen the confidence to speak openly and freely (but respectfully) allows them the time to mature in their thoughts and ideas. They may feel like they know everything and will want to fight, but they know deep down they can come to you with anything. Another part of listening is also learning more about their interests. Maybe try a show they like, listen to an artist they listen to.. anything that requires them to talk and you to listen!
3. Meet them at their level- If your child feels like they are "grown" then treat them as such. Of course they still have a lot to learn so you don't just throw them to the wolves. Allow them to make choices that could possibly have big consequences but still set up boundaries. For example, if your teen thinks they can go a whole week with only a few hours of sleep each night, let them see. They will quickly learn to appreciate rest lol. In our house, we show our kids the good, the bad and the ugly side of life. They know that every choice they make will create the path their life follows.

4. Have Dates- Once I started having regular dates with my teen our conversations changed for the better. She was more open with her thoughts and interests. Spending alone time with your teen will gently force your bond into something more. Try having a date with them once a month.
Need some date night ideas with your daughter? Read this "Mother Daughter Dates"Need some date night ideas with your son? Read this ""Mother Son Dates"

5. Compromise- Of course there are some things in life you should never compromise on. However there are times when you should. The same goes for dealing with your teen and building your relationship. You have to compromise from time to time. Recently I was able to make a compromise with my teen that actually gave us what we both wanted. I wanted her to read more books that were a bit challenging and classic. She wanted to read more anime and manga. So I found manga adaptations of classics like "Romeo & Juliet", "Pride & Prejudice", "The Scarlett Letter", "Anne of Green Gables" and much much more. We checked out about 10 of them lol. Boom. Compromise.

BONUS * Admit When Wrong- Building a great relationship with your teen is letting them know that you are human and you make mistakes. Admitting when you were wrong will allow them to see you in a vulnerable way that will provoke empathy. Being open and honest with your teen are the stepping stones to improving your relationship.
I used to be afraid of the teenage years. The first one was a bit bumpy, the second was a roller coaster and the third has turned it's head to the light. We are at a place that is full of love and understanding. When I started implementing these tips daily I have found the teen years to be exciting full of great moments.
How do you plan to improve your relationship with your teen? Any advice you would like to share? Leave a comment below.

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Hey y'all!
Have you ever watched a show or flipped though a magazine and wonder, " oh I wonder if they have that in my size?" Of course you have, we all do it.... especially us plus size ladies that love trendy and of course super cute outfits.
I remember being younger and forced to shop in the women's section because most trendy stores capped at a 12/14. Need I say more about how horrible that was lol. Find stores that had cute, age appropriate fashion was like pulling teeth. Thankfully as I got older and into my high school years, more stores started to carry plus sizes and I was able to find things here and there that were "in" and not in the women's section.
So now that fashion is embracing larger bodies and designers are creating pieces that are flattering curvy figures it can all seem a bit overwhelming when trying to find just the right piece.
But where exactly are the best places to find trendy plus size clothes?

1. Target- Target has amazingly stylish clothes that are on trend and range all the way to a 4x. A lot of my dresses have come from Target and I love all of them. Make sure you check out the clearance section too. You can find a lot of items marked all the way up to 70% off. In my opinion, they have some of the most trendy plus size clothes for women.

2. Walmart- Walmart has stepped up their game within the last few years. A lot of their plus size clothes are on trend and pretty comfortable. One thing I have realized about Walmart's clothes are that they tend to be more fitting for longer legs and shorter torsos. Having shorter legs and most of my weight in my midsection, I wish they had more tops that were just a tad longer.

3. Ross- I love Ross! They have great prices and hidden gems in every department. They have great trendy plus size clothes and even some designer labels all at a reasonable price. The only thing about Ross stores is that they are all different. You have to check out several stores before finding your favorite one.
4. TJ Maxx- Another great place to find trendy plus size clothes is at TJ Maxx. To me, TJ Maxx is very similar to Ross but a little more "upscale". You can find many different name brands and they will still be more affordable than most department stores.

5.Forever21 Plus- Forever 21 at one point was my go to place. Not so much anymore since my taste has changed in clothing. However, Forever 21 Plus always has trendy plus size clothes in a variety of sizes and looks at decent prices.
6. Kohl's- Most of their plus size items can be found online as opposed the the store, but Kohl's always has a great selection of trendy plus size clothes.
7. Amazon- I have several friends that frequent Amazon for clothing. While they fall into the mid size clothing range, they have informed me that there are larger sizes available in the selections they chose. You can always find what you want and need on Amazon lol.

8. Dress Barn- Dress Barn has amazing plus size clothes. They are a little more on the costly side but worth every penny. One of my husband's favorite dresses that I own comes from Dress Barn. Dress Barn offers great, professional styles that are of high quality without the designer price.
9. Torrid- Growing up torrid was my GO- TO store. However, my little Chili's income was not enough to keep me in their threads. But I was able to snag some great pants and dresses from them. I feel like their prices have become more shopper friendly over the years so grabbing a few staple pieces won't break the bank.
10. Shein Curve- I personally have not had the chance to order from them but I have heard nothing less than positive reviews. Shein offers a wide variety of styles at super affordable prices. One thing I love about their site is that they have tons of buyer photos so you can see a variety of body shapes and how the sizes fit.
With these 10 stores, you can find great plus size clothes that are in style and that won't blow your budget. Have you shopped at any of these stores? Where do you find your trendy plus size clothes? Let me know in the comments!

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